When I first came to university as a first-generation student, I was both excited and thoroughly overwhelmed. Without family members who had gone through the process before me, I had to figure out a lot on my own – sometimes the hard way – and now, as a senior at UConn, I’ve learned so many things that I wish I had known earlier. If you’re a first-gen student (or even if you’re not), here are a few lessons I’ve learned that might make your journey smoother.
Know How to Use Your Resources (Because They Exist for a Reason)
It’s okay to change your path – I did! I started college as a psychology major with dreams of becoming a clinical psychologist, but eventually realized that my interests were better aligned studying communication. At first, I felt like I had failed by not sticking to my original plan, but I’ve learned that changing majors, interests, or career goals is completely normal. College is about exploration – don’t be afraid to pivot if something doesn’t feel right! Finding what truly fits you is an important and exciting part of the process.
Ask for help!
Remember that at any step of your process, it’s always okay to ask for help. UConn offers so many resources, from tutoring centers to mental health services and financial aid advisors – but I didn’t always take advantage of these opportunities, as I often didn’t know how to look for them. I also didn’t fully grasp the importance of career preparation until I felt unsure about my direction. Interning at UConn’s Center for Career Readiness and Life Skills opened my eyes to just how valuable these resources can be. From resume workshops to mock interviews and networking events, they provide support that can truly make a difference in landing internships and jobs. Looking back, I wish I had taken advantage of these opportunities sooner. So, whether you’re struggling academically, exploring your career path, or facing personal challenges, don’t wait to seek support. Asking questions early on can save you a lot of stress down the road.
Be Involved — But Don’t Overload Yourself
I used to think that college was just about going to class and getting good grades, but a major part of the “college experience” is getting involved in clubs, student organizations, and campus events. Being a part of different communities not only helped me build friendships but also taught me leadership skills and boosted my confidence. That being said, it’s easy to overcommit–so find a balance that works for you.
Network Early — Even When It Feels Uncomfortable
As a first-gen student, networking didn’t come naturally to me. I didn’t grow up with family connections in my field, and the idea of reaching out to professionals felt intimidating. But what I’ve learned is that most people want to help — especially those who were once in my shoes. Professors, alumni, and even classmates can be great resources. Start small: attend a networking event, set up an informational interview, or just connect with someone on LinkedIn. You never know what opportunities may come from a simple conversation!
Financial Literacy Is Important (Seriously)
Understanding money – especially student loans, scholarships, and budgeting – was something I had to learn on my own. If I could go back, I’d tell myself to research financial aid options more thoroughly, apply for more scholarships, and avoid unnecessary expenses. Learning about credit, interest rates, and budgeting early on can save you a lot of stress down the road.
Impostor Syndrome Is Real — But You Belong Here
There were times when I felt like I didn’t belong, like everyone else knew what they were doing except me. But over the years, I’ve realized that so many students — first-gen or not — feel this way. Just because you’re figuring things out as you go doesn’t mean you don’t deserve to be here. You do belong, and your hard work is proof of that.
Being a first-generation student has its challenges, but it’s also something to be proud of. You’re paving the way for yourself and future generations in your family. If I could give my younger self one piece of advice, it would be this: ask questions, take advantage of every opportunity, and trust that you’re capable of figuring things out–even when it feels overwhelming. You’ve got this!
